Online message boards are dominated by people who failed to revive their dead bedrooms, but there are success stories. Below, real men and women share the specific things they did to fix their sexless relationships — including adopting a better attitude toward the problem.
“When my husband and I were having problems, we went to sex classes and we learned how to have sex. It turns out, like everyone else in the world, no one gets a sex education and we really didn’t know enough techniques. There’s a lot of reasons that hold people back from having good sex. For us, we needed to learn that couples that play together, stay together, especially in the bedroom. We also learned new techniques that we didn’t get from porn but from teachers who knew what they were doing.” — Susan Bratton, sex educator and author of Sexual Soulmates: The 6 Essentials for Connected Sex
